Wednesday, 11 March 2015

Friendship!!


Friendship... a big word, a big thing in everyone's life. It is this relationship which makes your life even more beautiful. In teens age, you make so many friends but when you reach a grown-up age, you'll be left with only handful of friends who are true friends or the real ones among all. But is it good to distinguish the real ones and non-real ones among all your friends, because as you are thinking like they are not the real ones, they lost contact with you, they fought with you, on other hand even they would also be thinking the same that you are not the real ones as at some point of time, in your busy schedule, you also lost contact with them.


We all have become so busy in our lives that we don’t have time for our self. We don’t have time to give to our family, friends etc.

We are just running out of our relation. But at one point of time in our lives, somewhere we miss those friends with whom we lost contact who were really close to us due to our busy schedule or due to some differences. Somewhere your heart still want to talk to them the same way you used to do it in school\collages but we hesitate due to our so called ego.


Life is short and we are running out of time but friendship is important, it’s an essential part of our lives.

Chuck out you ego, your anger, your hesitation... they are our friends, get up its time to call them, shout on them, scream on them that they didn't called you for so many years\days.

Show them you still love them and care for them and tell them that you are the real ones for them.. it’s time to become a true friend.


Make friends for life!!

Complications in relationship...


There are so many complications in once life especially in relationships. Some have problem with their spouse, some have with their brother’s and sisters.
Some have with their in-laws, some have with friends. But somewhere we all love each other so much that if a small thing happens among the relationships against our so called expectations, we get hurt so easily, we feels ignored, neglected, dis-honored.
But in reality, we should not feel in such a way as we are so much close to each other that we should not show or give proof of our love or respect to each other.

If all individual will understand this simple logic and think everyone’s point of view practically, there will be no more complications in relationship.
Here everyone wants to be understood, respected but in return they don’t want to do anything.

Anger plays a great role in this, those people who are short tempered gets triggered very easily, if anything goes against their wish they gets triggered, they don’t want or you can say they don’t like to accept anything which goes against their wish.

Such kind of people doesn't understand other's point of view.
They just act over situations without even realizing the outcome of their outburst which leads to lot of complications in their relationships.
To avoid such situations or events. You should always think about the other side of story before reacting. We should always take good care of our relationships be it of husband-wife, friends, relatives etc.
Treat everyone with respect and understand each other without any expectations. Before reacting to any situation, just think that there might be some reason for anyone's strange behavior which you didn't expected or so. If people will not give any spontaneous reaction on any unexpected thing,
Life will be much easier.

Give importance to relationships!!