Time doesn't wait for anyone!

Some wise man said, if you don't value the time, it will not value you, and it is so damn true.
We often think that someday I want to do this\that, but we don't think that whether time will allow us or not.

It is good to plan thinks and execute it but sometimes plans doesn't work out the way we want. Someone said one "Live life on the edge" but in reality do we follow it or do we dare to follow it?
We do not follow this philosophy or you can say we are bounded by so many things that we cannot or we don't dare to follow it.

I had so many plans for my parents, but one day all my plans\dreams got shattered when I lost my father, I could not do so many things for him, which I wanted to do and the bitter truth is life does not gives you second chance to make those things come true. I have regrets which will kill me through out my life.

So always value the time, do whatever you have planned or dreamed for your loved ones, be it your parents, partners, your family, friends etc. Don't wait for the right time to come, there is nothing called as right time, it is by doing right things , we create the right time.

I often see people they fight with each other on silly silly things and later they regret on such mistakes. If we all understand the simple logic of our life that it is the journey which should be enjoyed not the destiny..

So get up, tell the people how much you love them, do all the things which you wanted to do for them and make them feel special, listen to you heart and make things come true... If you don't drive the things in your life then life itself will drive the things for you which you'll not like..

Love Life, Live Life!!

Last Working day in IGATE..

It's always very hard to say good bye to anyone\anyplace, anything to which you're very close to. Tomorrow is my last working day in IGATE, as the time is approaching soon, I'm feeling a sort of mixed emotions, as I would not be following my same routine from day after tomorrow. 

I'll miss this place like hell. This place where I got my identity as an individual, I became a professional, this place means a lot to me, this place has given me a respect in this world.

Some days back when I decided to move on in my life, that time I never thought that how much this place has given me.. Today standing at this point, I'm realizing all those. I got the best managers to work under(I swear it, I'm not joking) I never felt pressurized or victimized of office politics(touch-wood), I have seen many people, who got victimized of office politics, targeted by managers like hell. Life was not that easy for me as well as a fresher but slowly slowly things became normal and better for me. Thanks to all those managers and colleagues who contributed for my easy life in IGATE.

Many thanks to all my batch-mates.. who eventually became friends ........ yes you heard it right! Friends, people say in professional life you wont get friends but luckily I got such kind of people to whom I can call as my friends. Many thanks to those who in-spite of having language differences accepted me, opened-up to me and stretch their hands towards me for friendship. You people are great, I hope we'll be in touch always and our friendship will last long. 

It's always very difficult to go out of your comfort zone to a new place where you have to start from the beginning , sometimes when you think about it you get scared but as life demands we need to move ahead and explore the new horizon's of life..

So, I also decided to give myself a chance to explore this life before it gets end.

Hope we'll meet again... and yes I'll miss you IGATE and all my friends, all the fun, laughter we have shared here. A heartily thank you to you all.

Hasta La Vista...

Friendship!!

Friendship... a big word, a big thing in everyone's life. It is this relationship which makes your life even more beautiful. In teens age, you make so many friends but when you reach a grown-up age, you'll be left with only handful of friends who are true friends or the real ones among all. But is it good to distinguish the real ones and non-real ones among all your friends, because as you are thinking like they are not the real ones, they lost contact with you, they fought with you, on other hand even they would also be thinking the same that you are not the real ones as at some point of time, in your busy schedule, you also lost contact with them.

We all have become so busy in our lives that we don’t have time for our self. We don’t have time to give to our family, friends etc.

We are just running out of our relation. But at one point of time in our lives, somewhere we miss those friends with whom we lost contact who were really close to us due to our busy schedule or due to some differences. Somewhere your heart still want to talk to them the same way you used to do it in school\collages but we hesitate due to our so called ego.

Life is short and we are running out of time but friendship is important, it’s an essential part of our lives.

Chuck out you ego, your anger, your hesitation... they are our friends, get up its time to call them, shout on them, scream on them that they didn't called you for so many years\days.

Show them you still love them and care for them and tell them that you are the real ones for them.. it’s time to become a true friend.

Make friends for life!!

Complications in relationship...

There are so many complications in once life especially in relationships. Some have problem with their spouse, some have with their brother’s and sisters.

Some have with their in-laws, some have with friends. But somewhere we all love each other so much that if a small thing happens among the relationships against our so called expectations, we get hurt so easily, we feels ignored, neglected, dis-honored.

But in reality, we should not feel in such a way as we are so much close to each other that we should not show or give proof of our love or respect to each other.

If all individual will understand this simple logic and think everyone’s point of view practically, there will be no more complications in relationship.

Here everyone wants to be understood, respected but in return they don’t want to do anything.

Anger plays a great role in this, those people who are short tempered gets triggered very easily, if anything goes against their wish they gets triggered, they don’t want or you can say they don’t like to accept anything which goes against their wish.

Such kind of people doesn't understand other's point of view.

They just act over situations without even realizing the outcome of their outburst which leads to lot of complications in their relationships.

To avoid such situations or events. You should always think about the other side of story before reacting. We should always take good care of our relationships be it of husband-wife, friends, relatives etc.

Treat everyone with respect and understand each other without any expectations. Before reacting to any situation, just think that there might be some reason for anyone's strange behavior which you didn't expected or so. If people will not give any spontaneous reaction on any unexpected thing,

Life will be much easier.

Give importance to relationships!!